Decorate Your Home for YOU

Decorate Your Home for YOU

The other day my husband asked me a question: “Why do you decorate for every season and holiday—even when we’re not having company?” My simple answer is: “I’m not decorating for other people; I’m decorating for myself.”

The truth is decorating is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make my home a space that truly feels like mine. It’s my sanctuary, and it deserves to reflect my personality, my mood, and what makes me happy. When I am blessed to have friends and family around to enjoy my home, that is just a bonus.

Why Decorating for Yourself Matters

Home is where we spend a lot of our time—whether we’re relaxing, working, or gathering with loved ones. Why wouldn’t you want to make it a space that lifts your spirits? When your surroundings bring you joy, you’re bound to feel better in other areas of life.

It’s not about impressing anyone, not about trying to keep up with trends or creating a picture-perfect Instagram shot. It’s about surrounding yourself with things that make you feel at peace, comforted, and inspired. That feeling is worth far more than any compliment you might receive.

No Need to Go Overboard

I don’t go all out all of time, especially when life gets busy, but even in busy times the smallest nod to the season can make such a difference in how my space feels.

You don’t need to completely redecorate for each season. Sometimes, just a few little tweaks are all it takes to make a big impact. A few things that can do is to change out your throw pillows (I love using pillow covers for easy storage), add a seasonal scent, or swap out your greenery or florals. A few small changes can transform a room and make it feel fresh and in tune with the season.

I’ve found that decorating for myself helps me reconnect with my space and stay mindful of the present moment. It’s an ongoing practice of “filling your space with things you love.” These things don’t just decorate a space; they improve your mood and enhance your day-to-day life.

Embrace the Season of Life You’re In

No matter what season of life you’re in, decorating for yourself can have a powerful impact. Whether you're newly married, a parent with young kids, empty-nesters, or somewhere in between, decorating is a way to reflect where you are, how you’re feeling, and what brings you joy.

Your home doesn’t need to reflect anyone else’s taste or expectations—it should reflect your style, your needs, and what makes you happy. As you go through the seasons of the year and the seasons of your life, make your space a constant source of comfort and inspiration.

So, the next time someone asks why you’re decorating for the season, remember: you're not doing it for them, you’re doing it for you. And that makes all the difference.

Happy decorating!